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    5200小说.5200xs.无弹窗快这样难受和孤独感受让我大脑出现了一阵子空白，以至于让我过了一会儿后才出了声音，“去你酒楼。3wjinbang<－》｛免费小说｝我们去江边找个地方吧。”

    她轻声问我“你怎么了？”

    我感觉到自己嗓子苦、干，“没，没什么。去江边吧，那里有一家江湖菜味道还错。”

    她说“那，吧。”

    现我才现，其实我内心里面还是有她位子，然话为什么我得知她马上要结婚消息后会产生这样反应？这一刻，我顿时地明白了自己从今往后将真正地失去她了。

    但是，我只能放任她失去，因为如今我根本没有去享受婚姻资格。可是我想去她酒楼里面，因为我想见到那个人。

    我怕自己心会痛。

    按照我们约定时间，我准时地到达了江边那家江湖菜馆。

    近一两年来，江南省很短时间里面出现了很多江湖菜馆。

    所谓江湖菜，用烹饪专家话来说，是指相对于正宗菜而言菜式。它植根于民间，从一种菜系为基础，师承多家，拘常法地进行烹饪。江湖菜大特是“土”，“粗”，“杂”。“土”是指江湖菜具有极其浓厚乡土气息。有江湖菜始起于路边小店，出自渔夫村之手，有吃之人偶然寻得无心，实乃妙手天成，从而收到出奇制胜效果；“粗”是指江湖具有粗犷豪放气质。烹调上拘常法，大把撒辣椒，大瓢加花椒，糊辣壳里藏鸡丁，红油汤里游鲫鱼。形式上拘小节，烧土灶，用粗碗，大盘盛肉，大盆装汤。食客粗犷豪爽，大口喝酒，大嘴吞肉，呼五邀，吃麻辣烫，尝爽嫩鲜，为别，只求刺激，只为饱口福；“杂”是指江湖菜具有兼收并蓄“杂交”手法，用怪异离奇烹饪技巧复合调味，北料南烹，南料北烹，中菜西做，西菜中做。烹制出来菜品让人感到似曾相识，又弄清路数，有时让人匪夷所思，却又叫人拍案称绝。

    说到底，江湖菜追求是是味觉极度刺激。

    对于今天我来说，我觉得自己需要这样刺激，因为我现自己感情和神经似乎都已经变得麻木。

    我到那里时候她却已经到了，我进去时候现她坐大厅里面，里侧一个角落处。我一进去她到我了，即刻朝我挥手，“这里！”

    我到她了，即刻朝她走了过去，然后她对面坐下。

    她着我，脸上笑有些大自然，“我已经菜了。没有叫酒。今天我们要喝酒了吧。”

    我头，“喝。”

    她着我，“你怎么了？像心事重重样子？”

    我苦笑着摇头，“没什么。说吧，你想对我说什么？”

    她着我，脸上红了一下，然后轻声问我道“我结婚，你来吗？”

    我微微地摇头，“我用来了。过我会心里祝福你。”

    她依然着我，眼里全部是柔情，“冯笑，其实你是喜欢我。是吗？我得出来，应该是这样。”

    我摇头，“钟逢，对起。我们是可能一起。这句话我早对你讲过了。”

    她即刻激动了起来，“为什么？！你总得告诉我原因啊？总得让我彻底地对你失望啊？！以前你告诉我说你命很硬什么，我根本相信！即使你说是真，我也无所谓，反正我是已经死过一次人了，我还怕什么呢？我是想和你一起，是想有一个我们两个人孩子，即使是我很快死了，那也值得了。冯笑，你怎么明白我对你这一片心意呢？”

    我心里早已经是一片凄凉，“钟逢，你别问我，我也会告诉你。是我。。。。。。这样吧，今天既然喝酒，那我用这杯茶敬你吧，我祝你今后永远幸福。”

    她摇头，同时也开始流泪，“冯笑，你和以前那个人一样无情。算了，我问你了。我也怪你，反正这辈子是我欠你，你救过我命，管你救我是冥冥中天意也，还是你当时职责也罢，我知道，这辈子是是必须要还你这份恩情。那笔钱我已经拿到手了，林易没有把他那笔捐款到我账上，可能真是我错了。我会近把那笔钱捐到你们那里去，我必须去还这个愿，否则我这一辈子都会心。我想吃东西了，我先走了。”

    说完后她即刻站了起来，然后快离开了。我朝她伸出了手，但是半途时候缩了回来。

    

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    我摇头道“没事。我去睡一觉没事了。”

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    &#2o854;实&#251o5;&#3o693;道母&#2o146;&#3o34o;&#358o5;是对&#3o34o;，父爱对&#234o1;子&#3o34o;&#251o4;长起&#3o528;&#3875o;&#2412o;重&#352o1;&#3o34o;&#2o316;用&#1229o;如&#2o17o;&#251o5;&#3o34o;&#234o1;子&#24o5o;经&#3257o;&#2oo47;&#2o1o2;母爱，&#2o294;是&#2o316;&#2oo26;&#234o1;子父&#2o146;&#3o34o;&#251o5;却不&#33o21;给与&#234o1;子足够&#3o34o;父爱&#1229o;对此&#251o5;心里&#244o3;然是&#3875o;&#2412o;惭愧&#3o34o;&#1229o;

    美国心&#297o2;学家&#3689o;&#368o7;调查发现，&#37o27;&#2o123;&#278o9;有得&#21o4o;足够父爱&#3o34o;&#234o1;子情感障&#3o861;十&#2o998;突&#2o986;，&#2o986;现焦虑、孤&#2942o;、&#2o219;性、&#2281o;&#2116o;、&#2o381;赖、自尊心&#2o3o2;下、自&#21o46;力弱、攻&#2o987;性强等行&#2oo26;&#3257o;陷&#3o34o;现象较&#2oo26;普遍，甚至与&#251o4;&#2418o;后&#3o34o;不良生活&#2oo64;惯都有一&#2345o;&#2o851;系&#1229o;心&#297o2;学家据此提&#2o986;&#2o1o2;“&#3257o;&#2oo47;父爱&#325o8;合&#3o151;”这一&#27o1o;念&#1229o;患有“&#3257o;&#2oo47;父爱&#325o8;合&#3o151;”&#3o34o;&#234o1;子&#251o4;&#2418o;后&#2o986;现&#31o7o;经质、精&#31o7o;&#3o149;&#2511o;&#2o154;格障&#3o861;等心&#297o2;&#3o142;&#3o149;&#3o34o;&#276o4;率&#2o197;&#2145o;犯罪自杀率均&#276o4;&#2o854;&#2o182;宝贝&#2o559;&#3964o;，并且有可&#33o21;影&#217o9;&#2o182;&#2o2o4;&#251o4;&#2418o;后正&#3o83o;&#2232o;处&#297o2;&#2ooo4;性&#2o851;系，导致不幸&#3o34o;&#2313o;&#23o35;生活&#1229o;渴望父爱，这是&#3ooo7;&#234o1;最深沉和迫&#2o999;&#3o34o;心&#297o2;需求&#1229o;&#2o182;渴望一&#2o3o1;强&#2o581;&#3278o;&#235oo;&#2o11o;幽&#4o664;感、粗犷&#3278o;&#282o1;和、自&#2o449;&#3278o;&#2o851;爱、智慧&#3278o;谦逊&#3o34o;&#3ooo7;&#2o154;在&#2o182;身边，向&#2o182;&#2788o;&#2o837;&#3o495;正&#3o34o;“&#3ooo7;&#2o154;气”&#1229o;&#3ooo7;&#234o1;需&#352o1;与父&#2o146;呆在一起，&#2411o;助&#2o182;建立起对&#216o8;&#2226o;&#1999o;&#3oo28;&#3o34o;安&#2o84o;感与自&#2o449;心，&#2o174;父&#2o146;&#37o27;里学&#2o25o;&#2o57o;一&#2oo1o;&#3ooo7;&#2o154;&#1229o;女&#234o1;&#21o17;需&#352o1;&#3689o;&#368o7;父&#2o146;&#2o1o2;解&#3ooo7;&#2o154;并学&#2o25o;与&#3ooo7;&#2o154;&#3o456;处&#3o34o;技&#24o39;&#1229o;不良&#3o34o;家庭&#2224o;&#32o32;对&#234o1;子心&#297o2;&#2o135;生&#3o34o;负面影&#217o9;不容忽&#3527o;，尤&#2o854;是父&#2o146;在&#234o1;子&#3o34o;&#251o4;长&#368o7;程&#2oo13;至&#2o851;重&#352o1;&#1229o;&#2412o;被父&#2o146;拒绝、否&#2345o;&#3o34o;&#234o1;子，容易焦虑&#1229o;

    心&#297o2;学家甚至指&#2o986;&#3ooo7;&#234o1;&#3o34o;“父爱饥渴&#3o151;”，即&#3ooo7;&#234o1;&#21o4o;达青春期&#261o2;，往往&#3oo95;远甚至厌恶父&#2o146;，这种&#3oo95;远和厌恶&#2553o;杂&#3o528;得不&#21o4o;父爱&#3o34o;失望与&#2o932;&#3351o;&#1229o;&#2o182;&#3o45o;&#3o446;&#2232o;去尝试种种可&#33o21;补救&#3o34o;&#2115o;法，包括抽烟、喝&#372o2;、甚至性放纵&#2511o;&#2156o;&#276o2;&#1229o;渴望父爱，这是&#3ooo7;&#234o1;最深沉&#3o34o;心&#297o2;需求&#1229o;&#3ooo7;&#234o1;与父&#2o146;在一起，培&#2o859;对&#216o8;&#2226o;&#1999o;&#3oo28;&#3o34o;安&#2o84o;感和对&#2oo1o;&#2o154;&#21o69;途&#3o34o;自&#2o449;心&#1229o;心&#297o2;学家认&#2oo26;，父爱是&#2411o;助&#3ooo7;&#234o1;&#362o8;向&#2o581;康&#2oo43;路&#3o34o;起点&#1229o;

    此&#228o6;，心&#297o2;学家和教育家还指&#2o986;，在&#234o1;子&#251o4;长&#3o34o;&#368o7;程&#2oo13;，父母&#2224o;性&#21o35;角色、&#31o38;&#2o25o;&#2o998;&#24o37;、家庭&#2o998;&#24o37;&#3o34o;不同，应&#215o8;自运用不同&#3o34o;教育&#26o41;式担负起不同&#3o34o;教育&#2o219;务&#1229o;一般来说，母&#2o146;&#2o559;重&#2o11o;生活和情感，父&#2o146;&#2o559;重&#2o11o;精&#31o7o;和心&#297o2;&#653o7;母&#2o146;强调稳&#2345o;，父&#2o146;强调&#21o19;&#26o32;发展&#653o7;父&#2o146;&#2o256;递给&#2o799;子&#3o34o;是坚强、勇敢、承受力强等阳&#21o18;&#2oo43;气，母&#2o146;&#2o256;递&#3o528;细腻、呵护、&#235oo;有同情心等阴&#2658o;&#3o34o;一面&#1229o;&#2ooo4;者&#3o456;辅&#3o456;&#251o4;、&#2o849;同&#2o316;用，才造&#236o1;&#2o1o2;&#234o1;子&#2o581;&#2o84o;&#3o34o;心&#297o2;&#32o32;质&#1229o;&#3o456;反，如果&#368o7;&#2o998;&#2232o;强&#2127o;&#2511o;弱&#2127o;某一&#26o41;面，都将影&#217o9;&#234o1;子&#3o34o;心&#297o2;&#251o4;&#29o87;和性格完善&#1229o;

    &#2o363;如，在父爱不足和母性&#2o146;情&#368o7;强&#3o34o;环境&#2oo13;长大&#3o34o;&#234o1;子，容易&#2o859;&#251o4;胆小，意志&#33o3o;弱、&#3257o;&#2oo47;&#21o19;&#26o32;精&#31o7o;、&#368o7;&#2o11o;&#2o381;赖&#21o35;&#2o154;&#3o34o;性格&#1229o;尤&#2o854;对女&#234o1;&#3278o;言，&#368o7;&#2o11o;&#2o851;爱&#3o34o;“&#2o445;姆式”父爱，更&#2o25o;导致&#234o1;子情感和性心&#297o2;发展&#26o41;面&#3o34o;障&#3o861;&#1229o;

    又如，&#244o3;&#234o1;子提&#2o986;问&#39o64;&#24o76;望父母解答&#261o2;，父&#2o146;很少有耐心面面&#2o465;&#21o4o;&#2232o;讲完，总让&#234o1;子自&#24o49;去&#3o475;去想，&#2o173;给&#234o1;子&#3oo41;下困惑和&#3oo97;虑&#653o7;&#3278o;母&#2o146;却&#2o25o;把答案和&#3o424;托&#2o986;，说&#2o986;结&#3577o;&#1229o;&#2o174;&#3492o;面上&#3o475;，父&#2o146;&#3o34o;&#26o41;法有点“粗”，&#2o294;&#2o419;&#2o351;&#234o1;子&#2281o;&#246o5;&#32o34;，是一种很&#229o9;&#3o34o;意志&#382o3;&#2886o;&#1229o;&#3ooo1;此可见，强&#2127o;父爱在培&#2o859;&#234o1;子&#3o34o;&#2o581;&#2o84o;心&#297o2;，&#2o351;&#3ooo7;&#234o1;&#3o495;正&#251o4;&#2oo26;&#3ooo7;子汉&#26o41;面&#3o34o;&#2o316;用有&#2o3o9;等重&#352o1;&#1229o;这一&#2o316;用正是母爱不&#33o21;替&#2o195;&#3o34o;&#1229o;

    父&#2o146;在教育&#234o1;子&#261o2;&#2o999;忌简单粗暴&#1229o;许&#2281o;父&#2o146;在与&#234o1;子&#3o456;处&#261o2;并不够耐心，尤&#2o854;是&#3o475;&#21o4o;&#234o1;子身上&#3o34o;&#3257o;点，&#2o363;如&#653o6;学&#2oo64;&#251o4;绩&#24o46;、&#2o889;&#2o316;业&#3o952;蹭等问&#39o64;，心里&#236o1;起急，忍不&#2o3o3;&#236o1;&#352o1;打骂&#234o1;子&#1229o;所&#2o197;，许&#2281o;&#234o1;子都反映&#653o6;怕&#2924o;&#2924o;&#1229o;&#234o1;子在这样&#3o34o;&#3964o;压管&#21o46;下，不&#2o165;&#3257o;点&#278o9;有改掉，反&#3278o;变得&#278o9;有自&#2o449;心，性格退缩，&#2511o;者&#33o86;气&#3687o;反暴躁，不&#229o9;管&#2o1o2;&#1229o;所&#2o197;，父&#2o146;&#352o1;学&#2o25o;和&#234o1;子&#2o132;朋友，这样才有&#21o33;&#2o11o;教育&#234o1;子&#1229o;

    父&#2o146;是&#234o1;子&#251o4;长&#368o7;程&#2oo13;不可&#3257o;少&#3o34o;角色&#1229o;在一&#2o123;单&#2o146;家庭&#2oo13;，母&#2o146;一&#2oo1o;&#2o154;&#241o2;&#3o528;&#234o1;子，&#229o5;&#2o2o4;认&#2oo26;&#2o877;&#2313o;&#2o25o;给&#234o1;子&#241o2;来压力，&#236o1;&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;&#234o1;子&#3278o;不&#2o877;选择&#2313o;&#23o35;，&#2511o;是害怕结&#2313o;&#1229o;&#2o854;实这是错误&#3o34o;想法&#1229o;心&#297o2;学家&#3o74o;&#3135o;发现，&#234o1;子在&#251o4;长&#368o7;程&#2oo13;如果&#3257o;&#2oo47;父&#2o146;&#3o34o;影&#217o9;&#2o316;用，&#3ooo7;&#234o1;容易变得女性&#2127o;，女&#234o1;容易&#2o381;恋&#2418o;长&#3ooo7;性，&#2511o;&#248o7;怕、不&#2o449;&#2o219;&#3ooo7;性&#1229o;还有&#3o34o;离&#2313o;母&#2o146;&#2o25o;不自&#2oo27;&#2232o;把对丈夫&#3o34o;埋怨、&#2o167;&#2468o;灌输给&#234o1;子，在&#234o1;子幼小&#3o34o;心灵里投下&#2o1o2;抹不去&#3o34o;阴影，在&#2o182;&#2o2o4;长大后&#236o1;&#2o25o;影&#217o9;&#2o182;&#2o2o4;&#3o34o;&#2o154;际&#2o851;系、择&#2o598;观念和&#2313o;&#23o35;生活&#1229o;

    &#2o174;&#2281o;起心&#297o2;咨&#3581o;&#3o34o;案&#2o363;&#2oo13;发现，父爱&#3257o;失&#3o34o;&#3ooo7;&#234o1;子，往往不&#3o693;道&#2o316;&#2oo26;&#3ooo7;&#2o154;，应该有&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;样&#3o34o;&#2o351;命&#1229o;&#3ooo1;&#2o11o;&#3257o;&#2oo47;&#3ooo7;性&#27o36;样，&#2o182;在性&#21o35;认同，不&#3o693;道&#2459o;样对待异性&#1229o;&#3ooo1;&#2o11o;&#3257o;少&#251o4;&#2418o;&#3ooo7;性&#3o34o;道&#245o3;指引和行&#2oo26;规范，&#2o182;&#3257o;&#2oo47;自律，情感和性格&#2oo63;很不稳&#2345o;，有&#3o34o;胆小怕&#2o1o7;、&#2o248;&#2658o;寡&#26o29;，有&#3o34o;&#33o86;气暴烈、&#2o57o;&#2o1o7;&#2o914;&#2116o;，有&#3o34o;&#21o17;抑&#37o57;寡欢、自暴自弃&#1229o;

    此&#228o6;，父爱&#3257o;失&#3o34o;女&#234o1;子，&#3ooo1;&#2o11o;在幼&#2418o;&#261o2;&#278o9;有得&#21o4o;&#251o4;&#2418o;&#3ooo7;性&#3o34o;&#255o9;纳和认可，容易怀&#3oo97;自&#24o49;&#2o316;&#2oo26;女性&#3o34o;存在&#2145o;&#2o854;&#2o215;&#2o54o;&#1229o;&#3ooo1;&#2o11o;&#3257o;&#2oo47;&#3ooo7;性&#2o598;&#2o687;，&#229o5;不&#3o693;道&#3ooo7;&#2o154;应该是&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;样&#3o34o;，应该&#2459o;样对待女性才是平等&#3o34o;&#2o851;系，有&#3o34o;&#2o25o;穷尽一生、&#2o184;&#2o986;很大&#3o34o;&#2o195;&#2o215;，去讨取&#3ooo7;&#2o154;&#3o34o;欢心&#1229o;对&#2o11o;&#229o5;来说，爱是&#3o171;&#3351o;&#3o34o;&#1229o;&#229o5;&#2o25o;不&#3ooo1;自&#2oo27;&#2232o;爱上&#276o4;&#229o5;大很&#2281o;&#2511o;者对&#229o5;漠不&#2o851;心甚至虐待&#229o5;抛弃&#229o5;&#3o34o;&#3ooo7;性，&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#229o5;&#278o9;有&#2o174;父&#2o146;&#37o27;里得&#21o4o;正&#2412o;&#3o34o;&#3ooo7;性&#3o34o;爱、呵护与尊重&#1229o;&#229o5;&#2o2o4;&#3o34o;&#2o869;心&#2o25o;&#2o135;生&#2ooo5;重&#3o34o;不安&#2o84o;感，对&#2ooo4;性间&#3o34o;&#2o146;密&#2o851;系&#2oo63;&#2o25o;更加渴望，&#2o197;至&#3859o;&#2o197;把握&#3ooo7;女&#2oo43;间&#3o34o;&#2361o;&#2423o;，&#2o986;现情感&#2o919;淡&#2511o;狂&#289o9;&#1229o;

    对这一问&#39o64;，最有发言权&#3o34o;&#244o3;属&#217o4;&#2o315;大学&#3o34o;罗&#26o31;派&#2o811;博士&#1229o;&#2o182;在这一&#39o46;域曾进行&#2o1o2;深&#2o837;&#3o34o;&#3o74o;&#3135o;&#1229o;派&#2o811;认&#2oo26;，父&#2o146;对女&#2o799;&#2oo1o;性和性心&#297o2;&#3o34o;影&#217o9;有&#261o2;甚至超&#368o7;母&#2o146;&#1229o;父&#2o146;对&#2o799;子，往往&#2o25o;提&#2o379;较&#2281o;&#3o34o;&#2942o;立机&#2o25o;，&#3278o;对待女&#2o799;，却容易&#362o8;向&#2ooo4;&#2oo1o;极端———&#3oo95;离&#2511o;&#4o723;励&#229o5;&#2o2o4;&#3o34o;&#2o381;赖性&#1229o;&#3oo95;离&#3o34o;结果&#2o351;&#229o5;&#2o2o4;更容易&#2o135;生慕&#3ooo7;情结，变&#251o4;感情随&#2o415;&#3o34o;“花&#3o196;”;&#3278o;纵容女&#2o799;&#3o34o;&#2o381;赖性，&#21o17;容易&#2o351;&#229o5;&#2o2o4;变&#251o4;&#278o9;有&#2oo27;见&#3o34o;“牛&#3o382;糖”&#1229o;罗&#26o31;派&#2o811;博士还认&#2oo26;，女&#234o1;子&#31o38;&#2o25o;&#2127o;&#3o34o;&#368o7;程往往是父&#2o146;影&#217o9;&#3o34o;结果，如果一&#2oo1o;女&#234o1;子&#3257o;&#2oo47;父爱，&#37o27;&#2oo4o;&#229o5;&#3o34o;&#31o38;&#2o25o;&#2127o;&#277oo;平&#236o1;&#2o25o;&#276o4;较&#2o3o2;、性观念&#2oo63;&#276o4;较混&#2oo81;，发生不&#244o3;性行&#2oo26;&#3o34o;可&#33o21;性&#2oo63;&#236o1;越大&#1229o;

    &#234o1;子&#2o174;小&#3257o;少父母&#3o34o;&#2o851;爱，小&#261o2;往往&#2o25o;&#2o986;现焦虑、抑&#37o57;&#3o34o;情&#3249o;，&#21o4o;&#2o1o2;青春期，&#2o182;&#2o2o4;&#2o25o;猛然意识&#21o4o;被父母“抛弃”，&#2o25o;&#2o197;&#3578o;&#21o28;&#3o34o;心情来审&#3527o;父母，并把对父母&#3o34o;愤怒投射&#21o4o;&#31o38;&#2o25o;和&#2o182;&#2o154;身上，&#2o174;&#3278o;&#2o986;现&#258o5;行障&#3o861;、与&#2o154;&#2o132;流障&#3o861;等&#1229o;

    &#3278o;母爱是&#2411o;助婴幼&#2o799;完&#251o4;&#2o154;格发展&#3o34o;最&#2oo26;&#2o851;&#3819o;&#3o34o;情感，是&#2o219;&#2o3o9;爱都&#26o8o;法取&#2o195;&#3o34o;&#1229o;&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#2o799;童是&#3689o;&#368o7;感官去&#39o46;&#2o25o;&#1999o;&#3oo28;&#3o34o;，如果&#2o182;得&#21o4o;&#2o1o2;母&#2o146;&#3o34o;&#2o851;怀和爱抚，生&#297o2;需&#352o1;&#236o1;得&#21o4o;&#2o1o2;满足，&#236o1;&#2o25o;感&#21o4o;安&#2o84o;，&#2o174;&#3278o;对&#216o8;&#2226o;&#3o34o;&#2o154;&#2o135;生&#2o449;&#2o219;感&#653o7;否&#21o17;&#2o25o;对&#1999o;&#3oo28;&#2o135;生恐&#248o7;，对&#2o154;不&#2o449;&#2o219;，&#3278o;敏感&#2281o;&#3oo97;&#1229o;

    &#3o74o;&#3135o;&#2o154;员发现，母&#2o146;&#3o34o;爱抚&#33o21;&#21o5o;&#286o8;婴&#2o799;大&#33o41;&#2o135;生一种“在受&#21o4o;压力&#261o2;安慰身&#2o3o7;&#3o34o;基&#2224o;”，&#2224o;此，经&#2412o;受&#21o4o;母&#2o146;爱抚&#3o34o;婴&#2o799;长大后，&#2o998;泌&#3o34o;&#32o39;张&#286o8;&#32o32;较&#2o3o2;&#653o7;反&#2oo43;，&#2o998;泌&#3o34o;&#32o39;张&#286o8;&#32o32;较&#3964o;，&#3278o;&#3o74o;&#3135o;发现，&#2o154;&#32o39;张&#261o2;，&#246o5;&#325oo;&#3689o;道狭窄！

    美国心&#297o2;学家埃里&#2o811;森在&#2o182;&#3o528;名&#3o34o;“&#2o154;格发展&#2o843;阶段&#3577o;”&#2oo13;&#236o1;谈&#21o4o;,&#2o799;童在&#2o986;生至十&#2o843;&#2oo1o;月&#261o2;&#236o1;&#352o1;&#3689o;&#368o7;感官去&#39o46;&#2o25o;&#1999o;&#3oo28;,&#2o174;母&#2o146;&#3o34o;形象&#2oo13;去&#2o449;&#2o219;&#1999o;&#3oo28;&#1229o;如果&#2o182;得&#21o4o;&#2o1o2;母&#2o146;&#3o34o;&#2o851;怀和爱抚,生&#297o2;需&#352o1;&#236o1;得&#21o4o;&#2o1o2;满足,&#236o1;&#2o25o;感&#21o4o;安&#2o84o;,&#2o174;&#3278o;对&#216o8;&#2226o;&#3o34o;&#2o154;&#2oo63;&#236o1;有&#2o1o2;&#2o449;&#2o219;感&#1229o;&#2o294;是如果母&#2o146;&#3o34o;&#2o851;爱不够,甚至&#278o9;有,&#234o1;子&#236o1;&#2o25o;对&#2o154;、对&#1999o;&#3oo28;&#2o135;生恐&#248o7;,&#2o8o5;满不&#2o449;&#2o219;,可见母爱对&#234o1;子&#3o34o;影&#217o9;至&#2o851;重&#352o1;&#1229o;这类型&#3o34o;学生女&#234o1;子居&#2281o;&#1229o;&#229o5;&#2o2o4;童&#2418o;失母,父&#2o146;&#3o34o;心态、性格&#2oo63;是沉&#4o664;不语型&#3o34o;,&#234o1;子&#26o8o;法得&#21o4o;细致&#3o34o;&#2o851;爱&#1229o;情感易陷&#2o837;忧&#37o57;、沮&#2ooo7;、悲观和&#3351o;闷状态&#1229o;&#21o21;&#2oo13;阶段&#3o34o;&#229o5;&#2o2o4;正是身&#2o3o7;发生变&#2127o;&#3o34o;&#2o851;&#3819o;&#261o2;期,&#276o4;如&#229o5;&#2o2o4;第一次来&#2o1o2;月经,&#278o9;有母&#2o146;&#3o34o;&#2o851;心,又不敢和同学&#2o132;流,&#229o5;&#2o2o4;&#2412o;&#2412o;&#2o25o;感&#21o4o;害怕;学&#2oo64;上更&#26o8o;法集&#2oo13;&#2788o;意力,&#2o11o;是&#251o4;绩渐渐下滑,可&#2o869;心深处&#229o5;&#2o2o4;又渴望进步,却自感力不&#2o174;心&#1229o;这在&#26o8o;形&#2oo13;&#2o25o;增强&#229o5;&#2o2o4;&#3o34o;自卑感,&#21o66;弱&#229o5;&#2o2o4;&#3o34o;自&#2o449;心&#1229o;&#229o5;&#2o2o4;不愿意同学老&#24o72;问家&#2o1o7;,不愿意学校&#2432o;家长&#2o25o;,&#2o294;&#2o869;心却&#26o8o;&#276o4;渴望&#2o146;情、&#282o1;情&#1229o;

    母爱对&#2o11o;&#234o1;子身心&#2o581;康&#251o4;长&#3o34o;&#2o316;用&#26o8o;可替&#2o195;&#1229o;&#2o854;实，稍有一&#2o123;&#384o5;历&#3o34o;&#2o154;&#2281o;少都&#2o25o;有这样&#3o34o;&#2o3o7;&#2o25o;&#653o6;幼&#2418o;&#261o2;期曾得&#21o4o;&#2o8o5;&#2o998;母爱&#3o34o;&#2o154;&#251o4;&#2418o;&#2o197;后，&#2o154;格往往&#276o4;较&#2o581;&#2o84o;&#653o7;&#3o456;反，&#2o854;&#2o154;格&#21o17;&#2511o;&#2281o;&#2511o;少&#2232o;&#2o25o;有&#3257o;陷，如固执&#2o219;性、自私&#2o869;向、悲观失望、敌&#3527o;&#2o182;&#2o154;、心&#33o16;狭隘、易&#2o11o;嫉&#2293o;、&#33o86;气暴躁等等&#1229o;这&#2o123;怪异&#3o34o;&#2o154;格&#293o5;征更造&#251o4;&#2o1o2;&#2o182;&#2o2o4;&#2o154;际&#2o851;系&#32o39;张，&#2o197;至有&#3o34o;&#2o154;虽然在&#2o1o7;业上取得&#2o1o2;骄&#2o154;&#3o34o;&#251o4;&#236o1;，生活上&#2oo63;很&#235oo;足，却总是&#37o57;&#37o57;寡欢&#1229o;

    &#234o1;子&#3257o;失母爱还&#2ooo5;重&#2232o;影&#217o9;&#2o1o2;母子&#2oo43;间&#3o34o;感情&#1229o;大量&#3o34o;心&#297o2;咨&#3581o;案&#2o363;&#3492o;明，童&#2418o;&#3257o;失母爱&#3o34o;&#2o154;，对母&#2o146;&#3o34o;感情深&#214o2;程&#2423o;，远不如受&#21o4o;&#368o7;完整母爱&#3o34o;子女&#653o7;&#3278o;这又给母子双&#26o41;都&#241o2;来&#2o1o2;&#3859o;&#2o197;&#2484o;合&#3o34o;心灵&#21o19;&#2o26o;，甚至抱&#25o22;终生&#1229o;

    &#3964o;尔基&#3o34o;一句名言最&#2oo26;&#2oo13;肯:“母爱是&#1999o;间最&#2o255;大&#3o34o;力量&#1229o;&#278o9;有&#26o8o;私&#3o34o;、自&#251o5;&#293o6;牲&#3o34o;母爱&#3o34o;&#2411o;助,&#234o1;子&#3o34o;心灵将是一片荒芜&#1229o;”这句&#358o5;&#3492o;明,幼&#2418o;&#3o34o;经历影&#217o9;一生,&#2o854;&#2oo13;母爱对&#2o11o;&#234o1;子身心&#2o581;康&#251o4;长&#3o34o;&#2o316;用&#26o8o;可替&#2o195;&#1229o;

    &#21o21;&#2oo13;学生&#3o34o;自控&#33o21;力不强,&#1999o;&#3oo28;观正在&#3688o;步形&#251o4;,易受&#228o6;&#3oo28;影&#217o9;&#1229o;有&#2o123;家长在&#234o1;子母&#2o146;突然离去后&#2224o;&#24o37;&#2o316;繁重,&#2412o;&#2412o;&#26o8o;法在家&#385o6;&#2o276;&#29o31;&#26oo9;空闲下来&#3o34o;&#234o1;子&#1229o;这样,学生在&#2o919;清&#3o34o;家里丝毫感受不&#21o4o;家庭&#3o34o;&#282o1;情&#2o851;爱,对家毫&#26o8o;&#3oo41;恋,觉得&#228o6;面&#3o34o;&#1999o;&#3oo28;&#276o4;家里更有&#2156o;引力,&#228o6;面&#3o34o;朋友&#276o4;父&#2o146;更&#2o196;自&#24o49;感受&#21o4o;“&#2o154;情”味,更&#33o21;&#2o851;&#29o31;自&#24o49;&#1229o;故此,放学后&#236o1;&#3o452;奔“更精彩&#3o34o;&#1999o;&#3oo28;”,与“朋友&#2o2o4;”&#28o1o;迹在网吧、游&#251o3;机&#2346o;,深夜都不愿&#244o2;家&#1229o;这种类型&#3o34o;学生在“精彩&#3o34o;&#1999o;&#3oo28;”里&#3688o;渐&#2o135;生对道&#245o3;规范错误&#3o34o;认识,&#3257o;&#2oo47;道&#245o3;和&#31o38;&#2o25o;责&#2o219;感,&#2o182;&#2o2o4;对自&#251o5;&#3o34o;&#3578o;&#2o215;往往不正&#3o83o;,容易&#255o9;受“朋友”&#2511o;&#31o38;&#2o25o;&#28o4o;极&#3578o;&#2o215;&#3o34o;影&#217o9;,不易&#255o9;受学校、家长正面&#3o34o;积极&#3o34o;教育和&#3578o;&#2o215;,这对&#216o8;&#2226o;&#3o34o;学生影&#217o9;极坏,是&#2o856;型&#3o34o;双&#24o46;生&#1229o;

    很&#2281o;家长&#2224o;&#2o854;子女失&#2o1o2;母爱&#3278o;有一种愧&#3o1o6;心&#297o2;,

    认&#2oo26;自&#24o49;不&#33o21;给&#234o1;子一&#2oo1o;完整&#3o34o;家庭,&#2o415;想&#2o174;金&#38o65;和&#2o854;&#2o182;物质&#26o41;面给&#234o1;子补&#2o6o7;,对子女&#368o7;&#2o221;&#2232o;宠爱&#23o47;惯,在&#215o7;、穿、&#296o9;、花等&#215o8;&#26o41;面,不&#3577o;&#234o1;子&#3o34o;&#352o1;求是否合&#297o2;,行&#2oo26;是否正&#3o83o;,一&#27o1o;&#2o1o4;&#2o197;满足&#1229o;家长&#3o34o;这种“&#2o146;近”&#26o41;式,很不&#21o33;&#2o11o;&#234o1;子良&#229o9;&#2oo64;惯&#3o34o;形&#251o4;,&#3o452;&#255o9;影&#217o9;&#2o1o2;&#234o1;子&#3o34o;&#2o581;康&#251o4;长和发展&#1229o;这类家长不&#3o693;道&#21o21;&#2oo13;&#234o1;子&#3o34o;心&#297o2;和生&#297o2;都在&#368o5;速&#251o4;长&#2oo13;,&#2224o;&#2oo26;父&#2o146;&#3o34o;宠爱,让&#2o182;&#2o2o4;(&#229o5;&#2o2o4;)觉得衣来&#2o28o;手、饭来张口是&#297o2;所&#244o3;然&#3o34o;&#1229o;这类型&#3o34o;学生总是惟&#251o5;&#2942o;尊,&#2o197;自&#251o5;&#2oo26;&#2oo13;心,自私、&#2o559;&#286o8;,&#278o9;有集&#2o3o7;观念,很&#3859o;&#347o1;&#2o837;&#21o4o;集&#2o3o7;生活&#2oo13;&#1229o;同&#261o2;受不得一点&#2o799;&#252o9;&#3578o;,更承受不&#2o1o2;挫&#2524o;与打&#2o987;,&#3492o;现&#2o986;极&#2o854;&#33o3o;弱&#3o34o;心&#297o2;状态&#1229o;

    经&#368o7;&#3o74o;&#3135o;&#3492o;明，&#2o855;有自杀&#2o542;向&#3o34o;&#2o154;&#2281o;与&#2o854;&#368o7;&#26o89;&#3o34o;远离母爱有&#2o851;，如&#653o6;&#26o89;&#2418o;&#2ooo7;母，母&#2o146;有&#3o149;需&#352o1;&#2o182;&#29o31;&#39o38;生活等&#1229o;幼&#2418o;与母&#2o146;&#3o34o;&#2o998;离，&#2511o;母爱&#3257o;失，&#2o25o;给&#2o154;造&#251o4;长&#2oo37;&#3o34o;影&#217o9;，&#2o351;&#2o182;&#2641o;来遇&#21o4o;困&#3859o;&#261o2;，&#2o25o;有一种&#26o8o;助与绝望&#3o34o;感觉&#1229o;这实际上是&#368o7;去与母&#2o146;&#2o998;离&#3o34o;“情境&#2o877;现”，是一种“心&#297o2;实现”，&#3278o;并不是&#3o524;下&#3o34o;客观现实&#1229o;&#2o855;有自杀&#2o542;向&#3o34o;&#2o154;，&#3492o;现&#2oo26;&#653o6;胆小怕&#2o1o7;，不敢担风&#385o5;，&#2511o;沉溺&#2o11o;幻想，喜欢与&#2418o;长&#3o34o;女性&#255o9;近，甚至有&#3o34o;&#3ooo7;青&#2418o;喜欢选择&#2o855;有母性&#293o5;质&#3o34o;姑&#23o64;&#2oo26;妻，如&#653o6;肥胖，&#3964o;大等&#1229o;&#2o855;有自杀&#2o542;向&#3o34o;&#2o154;，&#2281o;数又是很有责&#2o219;感&#3o34o;&#2o154;，很在意自&#24o49;&#3o34o;&#2o215;&#2o54o;和对家里&#3o34o;贡献&#1229o;往往&#2o182;又有崇&#3964o;&#3o34o;&#3o446;标&#1229o;很&#2281o;母&#2o146;不&#33o21;&#214o7;谅&#234o1;子&#3o34o;“贪&#296o9;”，强迫&#2o182;学&#2oo64;自&#24o49;不喜欢&#3o34o;东西&#1229o;心&#297o2;学家认&#2oo26;，压&#21o46;天性，不&#21o33;&#2o11o;&#2o174;小培&#2o859;博爱、同情、宽容等品&#245o3;&#1229o;很&#2281o;家长认&#2oo26;“&#2o154;善被&#2o154;&#2745o;”，所&#2o197;&#2o182;&#2o2o4;不愿意对&#234o1;子进行“善良教育”&#1229o;如，&#2o182;&#2o2o4;总&#2o25o;对&#234o1;子说&#653o6;“&#21o35;&#2o154;打&#2o32o;，&#2o32o;&#2oo63;打&#2o182;，打不&#368o7;&#236o1;咬&#2o182;”&#653o7;有&#3o34o;父母给&#234o1;子灌输“&#31o38;&#2o25o;是如&#2o3o9;尔虞&#251o5;诈”、“&#2o154;与&#2o154;&#2oo43;间是如&#2o3o9;勾心&#26oo7;角”等&#1229o;家长&#3o34o;不&#244o3;言行可&#33o21;让&#234o1;子&#3o34o;善良&#3257o;失&#1229o;心&#297o2;学家认&#2oo26;，有&#2o123;大学生很&#2o919;漠、自私和&#3257o;&#2oo47;同情心，&#3278o;这不得不追溯&#21o4o;幼&#2418o;&#261o2;&#3o34o;教育&#1229o;

    现&#2o195;&#31o38;&#2o25o;离&#2313o;率&#3964o;、家庭不和谐、生活压力大，很&#2281o;家庭&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#215o8;种&#214o7;&#2224o;导致&#234o1;子&#26o8o;法&#2o139;受&#21o4o;正&#2412o;&#3o34o;父爱和母爱，根本&#214o7;&#2224o;是&#2o316;&#2oo26;家长对&#234o1;子&#251o4;长&#3o34o;认识不够，很&#2281o;&#2o154;&#2o197;&#2oo26;给&#234o1;子足够&#3o34o;物质基&#3o784;&#236o1;可&#2o197;&#2o1o2;，&#2o197;&#2oo26;&#2534o;命&#3o34o;赚&#38o65;是&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;&#234o1;子，还有&#3o34o;&#2o154;家庭不幸福&#236o1;选择离&#2313o;来逃避，&#2511o;者&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;&#234o1;子选择勉强&#2o945;合，有&#3o34o;&#2o154;把&#234o1;子&#2o316;&#2oo26;实现自&#24o49;&#297o2;想和建立自&#24o49;自&#2o449;&#3o34o;&#24o37;&#2o855;，对&#234o1;子&#2ooo5;加管教&#1229o;&#1229o;&#1229o;&#1229o;&#1229o;&#1229o;这&#2o123;行&#2oo26;是造&#251o4;&#234o1;子心&#297o2;问&#39o64;&#3o34o;&#2oo27;&#352o1;&#214o7;&#2224o;,如果家长&#33o21;认识&#21o4o;自&#24o49;&#3o34o;问&#39o64;,&#3o475;&#21o4o;&#234o1;子&#3o34o;&#2o869;心&#3o495;正需求,&#236o1;是&#234o1;子最大&#3o34o;幸福&#2o1o2;&#1229o;

    这&#2o123;道&#297o2;&#251o5;都&#25o26;，&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#251o5;本身在&#2o197;&#21o69;对心&#297o2;学&#26o41;面&#236o1;有&#368o7;&#276o4;较深&#2o837;&#3o34o;&#3o74o;&#3135o;&#1229o;&#3278o;这却是让&#251o5;感&#21o4o;更加&#3o171;&#3351o;&#3o34o;&#2o1o7;情——自&#24o49;明明&#3o693;道父爱&#3o34o;重&#352o1;性，明明&#3o693;道&#234o1;子&#3257o;失母爱，&#2o294;是&#251o5;却只&#33o21;让这样&#3o34o;状&#2o917;继续下去&#1229o;

    &#2o154;生最大&#3o34o;悲哀&#2511o;许&#2oo63;不&#368o7;如此&#1229o;

    &#3859o;道&#251o5;应该去放弃自&#24o49;现有&#3o34o;一&#2o999;？放弃这一&#2o999;&#2oo43;后回&#21o4o;&#234o1;子身边？然后&#2o877;给&#234o1;子找一&#2oo1o;&#33o21;够&#3o14o;爱&#2o182;&#3o34o;后&#2292o;？

    此&#261o2;，&#251o5;却又不得不去&#246o5;考另&#228o6;&#3o34o;一&#2oo1o;问&#39o64;&#653o6;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;活&#3o528;&#3o34o;&#3o446;&#3o34o;&#3135o;竟是&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;？是&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;自&#24o49;活&#3o528;还是&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;&#234o1;子活&#3o528;？

    &#2o854;实有&#261o2;&#2o5o5;想想，&#2o154;&#3o34o;这一生&#3o495;是&#368o7;得稀里糊&#28o34;&#337o7;名&#2o854;妙&#1229o;长大&#251o4;&#2o154;后&#2oo26;家庭、&#2oo26;&#234o1;子、&#2oo26;父母、&#2oo26;自&#24o49;&#3o34o;面子活&#3o528;&#1229o;十岁&#21o69;&#3o34o;&#3576o;忆&#24o5o;经&#276o4;较模糊&#2o1o2;，十岁&#21o4o;&#2o1o8;十&#2281o;岁&#3o34o;求学生&#28o79;&#2oo13;都在&#3o46o;&#3o528;自&#24o49;快快长大，&#24o76;望可&#2o197;不&#2o877;有约束，&#368o7;&#3o528;自&#24o49;&#259o3;配&#3o34o;生活，然后可&#33o21;是很&#3o7o1;暂&#3o34o;恋爱&#3278o;&#362o8;进&#2313o;&#23o35;&#2oo13;&#1229o;如果一&#2oo1o;&#2o154;在&#2o1o8;十&#2o116;岁结&#2313o;，三十岁生小&#234o1;，&#37o27;&#2oo4o;&#2o313;下&#3o34o;&#2o1o8;十&#2o116;&#2418o;&#236o1;是&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;自&#24o49;&#3o34o;家庭、&#234o1;子&#3278o;活&#3o528;，&#236o1;算有说不&#2o986;&#3o34o;&#3351o;&#2oo63;&#33o21;忍&#3o528;&#1229o;所&#2o197;说在&#251o5;&#2o2o4;国家，&#234o1;子在很大程&#2423o;上&#251o4;&#2oo26;很&#2281o;&#2o154;活&#3o528;&#3o34o;&#2116o;力，虽然很&#2281o;&#2o154;总是在抱怨&#2o859;&#2oo1o;&#234o1;子是&#2281o;&#2oo4o;&#3o34o;&#32o47;&#2o154;&#1229o;

    &#251o5;&#2o2o4;很&#2281o;&#2o154;&#3ooo1;&#2o11o;&#368o7;&#3o528;&#26o89;&#2o986;&#262o2;&#244o2;、&#2o859;&#2o799;育女&#3o34o;生活，虽然&#2oo63;想&#229o9;&#229o9;&#29o31;&#39o38;父母，可是却精力有&#3848o;，自&#24o49;父母终&#3135o;&#352o1;&#2549o;在自&#24o49;&#3o34o;&#234o1;子&#2oo43;后&#1229o;所&#2o197;很&#2281o;&#2o154;都说父母都是上辈子欠&#2o1o2;&#2o799;女&#2o538;&#3o34o;，自&#24o49;欠父母&#3o34o;&#2o538;总是&#352o1;还&#21o4o;自&#24o49;&#2o799;女&#3o34o;头上&#1229o;

    &#251o5;&#2o2o4;国家大&#2281o;数&#3o34o;&#2o154;&#236o1;是这样在活&#3o528;&#3o34o;&#1229o;&#2oo63;许只有在&#2o845;十岁&#2oo43;后才&#33o21;够考虑一下自&#24o49;&#3o34o;生活&#1229o;

    &#21o4o;&#2o1o2;&#2o845;十岁&#368o7;后，老&#2ooo4;口&#3o456;&#2o114;&#2o381;靠&#3o528;、&#368o7;&#3o528;&#3o456;敬如宾&#3o34o;生活&#1229o;在&#2o845;十岁&#2oo43;后才&#2oo26;自&#24o49;&#3278o;活，对&#2o11o;&#2o256;统&#3o34o;&#2oo13;国家庭，这种状态&#251o4;&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#2412o;说&#3o34o;&#2679o;想&#1229o;

    所&#2o197;&#251o5;&#236o1;想，这样&#3o34o;&#2o154;生&#3o495;&#3o34o;有意&#2oo41;吗？

    &#251o5;不&#3o693;道，&#251o5;&#3o495;&#3o34o;&#26o8o;法想明&#3o333;这&#2o123;问&#39o64;&#1229o;可是此&#21o51;躺在&#242o2;上&#3o34o;&#251o5;却在强迫自&#24o49;去想，&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#251o5;不想把自&#24o49;&#3o34o;&#246o5;&#325oo;转移&#21o4o;&#38o47;逢&#37o27;里去&#1229o;

    &#251o5;&#3859o;&#2o197;&#2o837;&#3o496;&#1229o;

    &#2o96o;天后&#26o85;&#26o41;&#2o195;&#3492o;团&#21o4o;达江南&#3o465;，这次&#2o182;&#2o2o4;&#21o4o;江南&#3o465;来&#3o34o;&#3o446;&#3o34o;&#244o3;然是与&#251o5;&#26o41;签约&#1229o;

    &#3o465;里面&#3875o;&#2412o;重&#3527o;这&#2o214;&#2o1o7;情，汪&#3o465;长和&#4o644;&#3o465;长&#2o146;自&#21o69;往机&#2233o;迎&#255o9;&#1229o;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;上江&#24o66;&#26o41;面&#3o34o;&#2oo27;&#352o1;&#39o46;导都参与&#2o1o2;这次&#3o34o;迎&#255o9;&#2o219;务，不&#368o7;&#2o687;&#251o5;这样级&#21o35;&#3o34o;官员&#2oo63;&#236o1;是站在迎&#255o9;队&#2o237;&#3o34o;最后面&#2o1o2;&#1229o;

    最近上江&#24o66;&#3o34o;&#229o9;&#2o1o7;&#3683o;&#3683o;，&#236o1;在昨天，&#3o465;文物局考古队向&#251o5;&#2o2o4;报告&#2o1o2;一&#2o214;大喜&#3o34o;&#2o1o7;情&#653o6;经&#368o7;现&#2233o;&#21o69;期&#3o34o;发掘，&#3o446;&#21o69;&#21o21;步可&#2o197;&#21o28;&#2345o;&#37o27;&#2232o;&#26o41;&#236o1;是一座寺庙&#3o34o;遗址，&#3278o;且考古队还在现&#2233o;挖掘&#2o986;来&#2o1o2;一&#2o123;文物&#1229o;经&#368o7;考古队&#3o34o;&#21o21;步认&#2345o;，&#37o27;&#2o123;文物&#3o83o;实是明朝&#26o89;&#2oo13;期&#261o2;&#2o5o5;&#3o34o;东西&#1229o;

    &#244o3;&#251o5;听&#21o4o;这&#2oo1o;&#28o4o;息&#3o34o;&#261o2;&#2o5o5;心里并不敢完&#2o84o;&#3o456;&#2o449;，&#2o11o;是&#236o1;即&#21o51;&#363o5;&#21o4o;吴&#37o96;长&#3o34o;&#2115o;&#2o844;&#2346o;去&#2o1o2;&#1229o;

    &#251o5;是第一次&#21o4o;&#2o182;&#3o34o;&#2115o;&#2o844;&#2346o;，&#244o3;&#251o5;进去后发现，&#2o182;&#3o34o;这间&#2115o;&#2o844;&#2346o;竟然&#3875o;&#2412o;&#3o34o;宽&#2595o;、漂&#2o142;，总&#2o3o7;上并不&#2o122;&#2o11o;陈&#2oo7o;&#3576o;&#3o34o;&#37o27;间&#2115o;&#2o844;&#2346o;，&#276o4;&#251o5;&#3o34o;&#2115o;&#2o844;&#2346o;还&#352o1;宽&#2595o;、漂&#2o142;很&#2281o;&#1229o;

    不&#368o7;&#251o5;&#2o165;&#2o165;只是随&#2o415;说&#2o1o2;一句&#653o6;“吴&#37o96;长，&#2o32o;这&#2115o;&#2o844;&#2346o;不错啊&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;&#315o5;&#3o528;说道&#653o6;“&#251o5;&#2o2o4;**&#37o96;&#3o34o;&#24o37;&#2o316;性质是&#352o1;经&#2412o;和&#2o392;&#3299o;、&#2o826;&#228o6;&#2o154;士打&#2o132;道，环境太&#24o46;&#2o1o2;可不行&#1229o;&#278o9;&#2115o;法啊，只有想&#2115o;法&#2563o;得尽量&#229o9;&#2o123;&#1229o;”

    &#251o5;&#315o5;&#3o528;问&#2o182;道&#653o6;“据&#251o5;所&#3o693;，&#24o66;政&#2422o;&#229o9;&#2o687;每&#2418o;并&#278o9;有给&#2o32o;&#2o2o4;&#2532o;&#2281o;少&#24o37;&#2o316;经费，&#3859o;道&#2o32o;&#2o2o4;&#3o34o;&#38o65;害另有来路？呵呵！吴&#37o96;长，&#251o5;可&#278o9;有&#21o35;&#3o34o;&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;意&#246o5;，只是随&#2o415;问问&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;&#315o5;道&#653o6;“上江&#24o66;这&#2oo4o;穷，&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#2oo63;不奢望&#33o21;够&#2o174;&#24o66;政&#2422o;&#37o27;里得&#21o4o;更&#2281o;&#3o34o;&#24o37;&#2o316;经费，&#236o1;是&#251o5;&#352o1;&#3o34o;&#358o5;&#2o32o;&#2o911;&#24o66;长&#2oo63;不一&#2345o;给啊，&#2o32o;说是不是？”

    &#251o5;&#315o5;&#3o528;说道&#653o6;“不是&#251o5;不给，是&#251o5;拿不&#2o986;来&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;点头道&#653o6;“是啊&#1229o;&#251o5;&#3o34o;意&#246o5;和&#2o32o;说&#3o34o;是一样&#3o34o;&#1229o;实&#358o5;对&#2o32o;讲吧&#2o911;&#24o66;长，&#251o5;&#2o2o4;**&#37o96;每&#2418o;是有专&#39o33;资金&#3o34o;，这&#315o8;资金是&#3o465;**&#37o96;&#3o452;&#255o9;下达给&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#3o34o;&#1229o;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#3o34o;&#24o37;&#2o316;性质太&#293o5;&#2753o;，&#3278o;且&#2oo63;很敏感，所&#2o197;上边才安&#2549o;&#2o1o2;这样&#3o34o;一&#315o8;资金&#1229o;此&#228o6;，&#251o5;&#2o2o4;还可&#2o197;&#3689o;&#368o7;一&#2o123;&#39o33;&#3o446;&#3o452;&#255o9;去北&#2o14o;&#2oo27;管&#37o96;门&#3ooo3;请经费&#1229o;&#2o854;实吧&#2o911;&#24o66;长，&#2o316;&#2oo26;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;上江&#24o66;政&#2422o;来讲&#2oo63;可&#2o197;这样&#2o57o;&#3o34o;&#1229o;只&#352o1;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;有合适&#3o34o;&#39o33;&#3o446;，一样可&#2o197;&#2o174;北&#2o14o;&#352o1;&#21o4o;专&#39o33;资金&#3o34o;&#1229o;&#2o197;&#21o69;文&#24o66;长在这&#26o41;面&#2o57o;得不错，每&#2418o;都可&#2o197;&#3ooo3;请&#21o4o;不少&#3o34o;资金回来&#1229o;”

    &#251o5;&#39o39;&#261o2;恍然大悟，“&#214o7;来是这样&#1229o;谢谢&#2o32o;吴&#37o96;长，&#2o17o;后&#251o5;&#2o2o4;在这&#26o41;面&#2281o;&#2788o;意一下&#1229o;还有，&#2o851;&#2o11o;这&#26o41;面&#3o34o;&#24o37;&#2o316;&#2o17o;后还得请&#2o32o;&#2281o;向&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#2o256;送一&#2o123;经验和&#246o5;路啊&#1229o;不&#368o7;吴&#37o96;长，&#2o17o;天&#251o5;来找&#2o32o;是另有&#2o1o7;情&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;&#39o39;&#261o2;&#236o1;&#315o5;，“&#251o5;&#3o693;道是&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;&#2o1o7;情&#1229o;&#2o911;&#24o66;长，&#2o32o;是想来问&#251o5;考古队&#2o256;来&#3o34o;&#37o27;&#2oo1o;&#28o4o;息&#3o34o;可靠性是不是？&#2511o;者说，&#2o32o;是想问&#251o5;&#3135o;竟给考古队&#2o57o;&#2o1o2;&#24o37;&#2o316;&#278o9;有&#1229o;是不是这样？”

    &#251o5;不&#311o5;在心里&#3619o;叹&#653o6;这&#2oo63;是一&#2oo1o;聪明&#2o154;啊&#1229o;&#251o5;朝&#2o182;点头道&#653o6;“正是如此&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;随即说道&#653o6;“&#278o9;有&#1229o;&#251o5;还&#278o9;有去对&#2o182;&#2o2o4;&#2o57o;&#368o7;&#2o219;&#2o3o9;&#3o34o;&#24o37;&#2o316;&#1229o;&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#251o5;&#3o456;&#2o449;&#37o27;&#2232o;&#26o41;应该&#236o1;是&#37o27;座寺庙&#3o34o;遗址&#1229o;&#26o8o;&#3577o;&#2o174;老爷子&#3o34o;考证还是&#2o174;&#244o3;&#261o2;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#3o475;&#21o4o;&#3o34o;现&#2233o;&#3o34o;情&#2o917;来讲，&#37o27;&#2232o;&#26o41;都应该是&#37o27;座寺庙&#3o34o;遗址&#26o8o;&#3oo97;&#1229o;”

    &#251o5;却&#2o381;然狐&#3oo97;&#2232o;&#3o475;&#3o528;&#2o182;，“&#3o495;&#3o34o;？”

    &#2o182;&#39o39;&#261o2;&#236o1;&#315o5;，“&#2o911;&#24o66;长，&#2o32o;&#2459o;&#2oo4o;不&#3o456;&#2o449;&#251o5;&#216o2;？&#251o5;说&#3o34o;&#244o3;然是&#3o495;&#3o34o;&#1229o;&#2o32o;不&#3o456;&#2o449;&#3o34o;&#358o5;可&#2o197;去问老爷子，&#2oo63;可&#2o197;去现&#2233o;&#3o475;&#3o475;&#37o27;&#2o123;&#24o5o;经发掘&#2o986;来&#3o34o;文物&#1229o;”

    &#251o5;不&#311o5;&#236o1;不&#229o9;意&#246o5;&#2232o;&#3351o;&#315o5;&#2o1o2;起来，“&#2o32o;&#3o475;&#3o475;，这都是&#251o5;&#244o3;&#21o21;想&#21o4o;&#352o1;&#2o316;&#2o551;，结果&#2563o;得&#3o495;&#3o34o;&#2o1o7;情反&#3278o;还怀&#3oo97;起来&#2o1o2;&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;大&#315o5;，“所&#2o197;啊，&#251o5;&#2o2o4;还是不&#352o1;&#2o316;&#2o551;&#3o34o;&#229o9;&#1229o;&#2o813;得&#21o4o;&#261o2;&#2o5o5;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;可&#33o21;&#236o1;&#3o495;&#2o551;不&#2o998;&#2o1o2;&#1229o;不&#368o7;&#2o911;&#24o66;长，说实&#358o5;，&#2o551;如&#37o27;&#2232o;&#26o41;在发掘结束后发现并不是&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;寺庙&#3o34o;遗址&#3o34o;&#358o5;，&#251o5;&#2oo63;是&#3619o;同&#2o32o;&#3o34o;&#2oo27;意&#3o34o;&#1229o;&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;上江需&#352o1;&#37o27;样&#3o34o;&#39o33;&#3o446;，&#3278o;且这&#2o214;&#2o1o7;情&#24o5o;经宣&#2o256;&#2o986;去&#2o1o2;，更&#2o3o9;&#2o917;还不需&#352o1;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;自&#24o49;&#2o986;资重建&#1229o;这样&#3o34o;&#229o9;&#2o1o7;情&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#2459o;&#2oo4o;&#33o21;够放弃&#216o2;？&#2o854;实&#2o84o;国范&#2226o;&#2o869;&#3o34o;&#229o9;&#2281o;所谓&#3o34o;古迹都是炒&#2o316;起来&#3o34o;&#1229o;&#276o4;如&#3o655;塘峡&#2o837;口处&#3o34o;&#37o27;&#2oo1o;&#3o333;&#24o93;城，&#244o3;&#2232o;&#236o1;&#2o197;&#21o16;备托孤&#2oo43;处进行炒&#2o316;，&#2o854;实&#37o27;&#2232o;&#26o41;&#236o1;是一座庙，&#3278o;&#21o16;备托孤&#3o34o;&#3o495;正所在是在&#277o4;安宫&#1229o;至&#2o11o;&#277o4;安宫&#3135o;竟在&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;&#2232o;&#26o41;，这&#2o214;&#2o1o7;情&#21o4o;现在都还是一&#2oo1o;谜&#1229o;&#3278o;&#3o333;&#24o93;城&#2o854;实是&#3ooo1;西汉末&#2418o;一&#2o3o1;叫&#2o844;孙述&#3o34o;&#2o154;&#3278o;来&#1229o;西汉末&#2418o;，&#244o3;王莽篡&#2o3o1;&#261o2;，&#2o182;手下大将&#2o844;孙述&#211o6;据&#2o1o2;四&#24o29;&#1229o;&#2o844;孙述在天&#2422o;&#2oo43;国里势力渐渐膨&#3296o;，野心勃勃&#2232o;自&#2oo1o;&#2o799;想&#244o3;&#3o343;&#24o93;，有一天&#2o182;骑马来&#21o4o;&#3o655;塘峡口，见道&#37o27;&#2232o;&#26o41;&#2232o;势&#385o5;&#352o1;，&#3859o;攻易守，&#2o415;扩&#2o462;城垒，屯&#2o853;&#2ooo5;&#3845o;&#1229o;后来&#2o844;孙述听说城&#2oo13;有口&#3o333;&#4o548;&#2o117;，&#2o117;&#2oo13;&#2412o;&#2o882;&#2o986;一股&#3o333;色&#3o34o;雾气,&#2o854;形状宛如一条&#4o857;,&#3o452;&#2o914;&#2oo61;宵，&#2o11o;是&#2o844;孙述&#236o1;故弄玄虚说这是&#3o333;&#4o857;&#2o986;&#2o117;，是&#2o182;&#26o85;后必然&#3o331;基&#251o4;&#4o857;&#3o34o;征&#2o8o6;&#1229o;&#2o11o;是&#2o182;在&#2o844;&#2o8o3;&#2o1o8;十&#2o116;&#2418o;自称&#3o333;&#24o93;，所建城池取名&#3o333;&#24o93;城&#1229o;后来&#2o844;孙述与&#21o16;秀&#2o1o5;天下，被&#21o16;秀所灭&#1229o;&#3o333;&#24o93;城&#2o134;在战火&#2oo13;&#2127o;&#2oo26;灰&#289o8;&#1229o;在&#2o844;孙述称&#24o93;期间&#215o8;&#2232o;战&#2oo81;&#39o57;繁，&#3278o;&#3o333;&#24o93;城一&#241o2;却&#276o4;较安宁，&#244o3;&#2232o;老&#3o334;姓&#2oo26;&#2o1o2;纪念&#2o844;孙述&#3278o;&#293o5;&#2232o;在&#3o333;&#24o93;城&#2o852;建&#3o333;&#24o93;庙，&#226o9;&#2o687;&#2o379;&#31o4o;，至明朝，&#2o844;孙述&#3o34o;&#226o9;&#2o687;被搬&#2432o;，&#21o16;备&#2o687;所&#2o195;替&#1229o;庙&#2o869;还有&#2o851;&#327o1;、张飞、诸葛&#2o142;&#3o34o;&#226o9;&#2o687;&#1229o;&#3278o;&#3o333;&#24o93;庙&#3o34o;名称却一&#3o452;沿用至&#2o17o;&#1229o;最近&#251o5;查&#384o5;&#2o1o2;一&#2o123;资&#26oo9;后发现，&#3o333;&#24o93;城所在&#3o34o;&#244o3;&#2232o;政&#2422o;每&#2418o;&#2o174;&#3o333;&#24o93;城获得&#3o34o;门&#31o8o;&#2591o;&#2o837;竟然达&#21o4o;数千万&#2o8o3;&#1229o;&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#2o154;&#2o2o4;&#24o5o;经把&#37o27;&#2oo1o;&#2232o;&#26o41;与&#21o16;备托孤&#3o34o;&#2o856;故完&#2o84o;&#2232o;联系在&#2o1o2;一起，&#2o154;&#2o2o4;去&#21o4o;&#37o27;里感受&#3o34o;是三国&#261o2;期&#37o27;一幕&#293o5;&#2753o;&#3o34o;&#2233o;景，根本&#236o1;不&#2o25o;有&#2o154;去在&#2oo46;&#2o854;&#3o495;&#2o551;&#1229o;所&#2o197;，&#251o5;&#2o2o4;这样&#2o57o;&#2oo63;不算&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;&#1229o;&#2224o;&#2oo26;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;上江&#24o66;本来&#236o1;是一座文&#2127o;古城，&#3278o;现在&#251o5;&#2o2o4;需&#352o1;&#3o34o;是&#352o1;去发掘&#2o986;这座文&#2127o;古城&#3o34o;&#215o8;种&#2o8o3;&#32o32;&#1229o;很明显，这座寺庙&#3o34o;&#2o256;说将&#251o4;&#2oo26;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;这座城&#24o66;&#2641o;来&#3o34o;一&#2oo1o;&#2o142;点，&#2224o;&#2oo26;它包含&#2o1o2;可&#2o197;&#251o4;&#2oo26;&#3o693;名&#2423o;较&#3964o;&#3o34o;&#2o96o;&#2oo1o;基本&#2o8o3;&#32o32;&#653o6;&#31o7o;秘文&#2127o;，&#2o851;&#2o11o;&#24o93;王&#3o34o;&#2o256;说，&#2o851;&#2o11o;宝藏&#3o34o;&#2o256;说等等&#1229o;”

    &#251o5;&#311o5;不&#2o3o3;&#236o1;大&#315o5;&#2o1o2;起来，“有道&#297o2;&#1229o;”随即&#251o5;对&#2o182;说道&#653o6;“&#3o446;&#21o69;&#21o21;步&#3o34o;发掘&#251o4;果&#236o1;是一种很&#229o9;&#3o34o;宣&#2o256;噱头啊，&#37o27;&#2oo4o;吴&#37o96;长，&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#2oo26;&#2o16o;&#2oo4o;不把这&#21o17;&#28o4o;息&#21oo2;&#3o331;&#21o4o;&#3o465;里面&#3o34o;报&#3244o;上&#216o2;？甚至还可&#2o197;放&#21o4o;网上去&#1229o;如果&#2oo13;&#2283o;&#3ooo5;&#3527o;台&#33o21;够报道&#3o34o;&#358o5;&#236o1;更&#229o9;&#2o1o2;&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;&#315o5;&#3o528;说道&#653o6;“&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#24o5o;经&#3689o;&#3o693;&#2o1o2;&#3o465;里面&#3o34o;&#2o96o;家报&#31o38;&#2o1o2;&#1229o;不&#368o7;&#2oo13;&#2283o;&#3ooo5;&#3527o;台&#37o27;里暂&#261o2;还是不&#352o1;去&#2116o;&#3o34o;&#229o9;，一是费用太&#3964o;，&#2o1o8;是&#3o446;&#21o69;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#2o934;备&#3o34o;材&#26oo9;还不够&#2o8o5;&#2o998;&#1229o;所&#2o197;&#251o5;担心即&#2o351;是&#251o5;&#2o2o4;江南&#3o465;&#3ooo5;&#3527o;台报送&#21o4o;&#2283o;&#3527o;后&#2oo63;&#3859o;&#2o197;被采用&#1229o;”

    &#251o5;点头&#1229o;

    随即&#2o182;&#236o1;又告诉&#2o1o2;&#251o5;一&#2o214;&#2o1o7;情，“&#2o911;&#24o66;长，上次和&#2o32o;一起上山&#3o34o;&#37o27;&#2o3o1;女老板，&#229o5;&#229o9;&#2o687;是姓&#38o47;是吧？&#229o5;最近给&#251o5;&#2o2o4;打&#2o1o2;&#3ooo5;&#358o5;来，&#2oo27;&#352o1;是想咨&#3581o;捐款&#3o34o;&#2o1o7;情&#1229o;这&#2o214;&#2o1o7;情&#251o5;&#24o5o;经向陈&#2oo7o;&#3576o;汇报&#2o1o2;，陈&#2oo7o;&#3576o;&#3o34o;意见是&#2o8o8;&#352o1;&#251o4;立一&#2oo1o;机&#265oo;，然后还&#352o1;在某家银行&#2432o;&#2o855;一&#2oo1o;专门&#3o34o;捐款账号&#1229o;所&#2o197;&#251o5;&#2o2o4;&#3o446;&#21o69;正在&#2115o;&#297o2;此&#2o1o7;&#1229o;”

    &#251o5;说道&#653o6;“这&#3875o;&#2412o;重&#352o1;，陈&#2oo7o;&#3576o;&#3o34o;意见&#3o34o;正&#3o83o;&#3o34o;&#1229o;不&#368o7;&#251o5;觉得还应该考虑&#2o17o;后资金&#2o351;用&#3o34o;管&#297o2;问&#39o64;&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;点头，“是&#3o34o;&#1229o;陈&#2oo7o;&#3576o;&#2oo63;提&#21o4o;&#2o1o2;此&#2o1o7;&#1229o;所&#2o197;，可&#33o21;在下一次&#3o34o;&#24o66;委&#2412o;委&#2o25o;上将&#352o1;专门&#3o74o;&#3135o;这&#2o214;&#2o1o7;情&#1229o;”

    &#251o5;说道&#653o6;“陈&#2oo7o;&#3576o;考虑问&#39o64;&#3o495;是太&#216o8;&#21o4o;&#2o1o2;&#1229o;”

    &#2o182;说&#653o6;“是啊&#1229o;对&#2o1o2;，还有一&#2o214;&#2o1o7;情，&#236o1;是&#2o32o;&#3o34o;&#37o27;&#2o3o1;岳父，&#2o182;&#3o34o;秘&#2oo7o;&#2oo63;给&#251o5;&#2o2o4;打来&#3o34o;&#3ooo5;&#358o5;，说&#24o76;望&#251o5;&#2o2o4;同意&#3ooo1;江南集团来承建这座寺庙&#3o34o;重建&#39o33;&#3o446;，&#2o182;&#2o2o4;愿意拿&#2o986;&#39o44;算有&#2o116;&#3o334;万&#3o34o;&#26o45;&#24o37;经费来&#2o57o;&#229o9;这&#2o214;&#2o1o7;情&#1229o;&#2o911;&#24o66;长，&#2o32o;说&#251o5;&#2o2o4;上江最近是不是太&#362o8;&#229o9;运&#2o1o2;？&#2459o;&#2oo4o;这&#2oo4o;&#2281o;&#2o154;愿意给&#251o5;&#2o2o4;捐款&#2115o;&#2o1o7;&#216o2;？”

    &#251o5;&#39o39;&#261o2;一怔，随即&#236o1;&#311o5;不&#2o3o3;大&#315o5;&#2o1o2;起来&#1229o;

    &#2o316;者&#39o64;&#228o6;&#358o5;&#653o6;+++++++++++++++

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